Another Trip Around the Sun

And ... 55!
Well. Two days ago I turned 55. How the hell did that happen?! If you had asked me 25 years ago whether I’d make it this far, I would have said, “That’s not gonna happen.” I guess everyone says that when they are young. And now here I am fatter, deafer (I really do think I need hearing aids), and greyer. Yay.

So, for the past day and a half, I have been nursing a pretty nasty hangover because I drank way too many Bourbon Cheerwine Slushies (yay, alcohol and sugar) to celebrate. Hooray for being old!

Since I am now flitting around the edges of being a “senior,” I have decided to embrace it instead of burying my head in the sand. And you know what happens when you get to my age … the start of SENIOR DISCOUNTS! Certain businesses start their senior discounts for folks aged 55. And I am now a folk aged 55! Which means that I will be at the local IHOP ordering off the Senior Menu as quickly as possible. I can’t wait to have my ID checked for that!

Another Trip Around the Sun

Broken

Broken
Broken
As the perfect capper on a crappy week, I somehow managed to break my commitment ring. I had no idea that tungsten carbide would do this. And I have no idea how this actually occurred. David and I got these rings back in 2017 or 2018, so I am a bit crushed about this. It’s going to be a few weeks before we can make it back to the store over in Tennessee, where we bought them. Supposedly, it has a lifetime warranty. Though I doubt I’ll be able to get a free replacement. Who has “proof of purchase” nearly 10 years after the fact? Ugh.

Broken

RSD Black Friday Disappointment

10,000 Maniacs "Candy Everybody Wants" RSD Black Friday 2026
Yesterday, the Record Store Day Black Friday list for 2026 dropped. Imagine my excitement when I saw a listing for a 10,000 Maniacs’ Candy Everybody Wants (1982-1992) box set. It’s limited to 2600 units and includes the five albums 100,000 Maniacs released via Elektra Records (Hope Chest [The Fredonia Recordings 1982-1983], The Wishing Chair, In My Tribe, Blind Man’s Zoo, and Our Time in Eden), plus a sixth LP of rarities. Imagine my disappointment when I saw this box set will retail for $250. That’s almost $42 per album! Now, I have bought a few limited edition vinyl box sets with 6+ LPs in them over the years, and I have never paid that much. So I guess I will not be adding this to my already out-of-control record collection. The bright side is that I won’t be standing in some freezing cold line for hours, and I won’t be spending $250.

(Keep looking on the bright side. Keep looking on the bright side. Keep looking on the bright side. Keep looking on the bright side. Keep looking on the bright side.)

RSD Black Friday Disappointment

Design Time [I’m a Bitter Asshole Edition]

Back in the summer of 2020, I ended my tenure as the graphic designer for the local community theater. The whole staff got laid off in March when the doors were closed because of COVID. In July, after volunteering to design art for two virtual events and not receiving any thanks for it, I decided to step back and try to find other work. At that time, nobody knew how long the place would be closed, and I didn’t want to feel obligated to volunteer my time when nobody really appreciated what I was doing. I was met with “we can’t do this without you” from at least FOUR people in decision-making positions. I told each one of them that they should hit me up when the theater was close to reopening to see if I would be available. Everyone gave me the impression that this was something that would happen.

Fast forward to the summer of 2021, and they reopened with a new “designer.” I was never approached about returning. This designer then spent the next several years ripping off my work and passing it off as their own. It was pretty infuriating and frustrating to see that nobody could tell that my design work (that I took great pride in) was being recycled and downgraded.

The art for each production also suffered. I can’t speak about how much time was now being spent on that art. What I can speak about is how much time I spent and the thought process that went into the art I did for each show. I was being paid a pittance for the amount of work that I was doing, but I took my time because I wanted the theater to look good.

Every new season announcement would make me crazy because I would see the art for each show, and I could see how I would have done it. I might have even gone so far as to do my own artwork for each of the shows in the 2022, 2023, and 2024 seasons. Insanity, right? I was told as much by the few friends that I told I was doing this. I started managing to control myself and didn’t do my own versions of art for the 2025 shows. It was tough, though.

The 2026 season was announced around this time last year. Again, that urge to try my hand at show art reared its ugly head. I managed to control this urge again … except for the last show of the season. For some reason, the art for that show really bothered me because I could see so clearly what I would have done instead. So, in January I spent a few days doing my thing.

WP-BADHere’s the current art for that show. While the idea isn’t necessarily bad, the execution is not great (IMHO). The Art Deco border is too detailed and busy, with too many fine lines, and the show title lettering doesn’t match the border’s feel. It just doesn’t work well.

WP-GOOD
And here is my design. I kept the Art Deco vibes and used a font that wouldn’t clash with the art. I also used images of cocktail glasses since the whole show is set at a Roaring ’20s party. I used three glasses in each grouping to represent the love triangle in the show. The idea behind the coloring of the glasses comes from the show as well. The yellow represents the lead character, Queenie (who is blonde). The red (and the glasses being upside down) represents the upheaval and bloodshed that happens at the climax of the show.

So, there it is. I like to think what I did is good and advertises the show better … but who knows. I have seen a ton of “let me redesign this bad art” posts across the internet, and they all generally strike me as the designer being full of themselves. I guess I am too. But it does make my eye twitch a little to see the place I spent years making look good settle for the kind of art that is being put out there since their post-COVID reopening … especially since someone made the decision to not approach me about coming back as their in-house designer.

So. Yeah. I’m bitter about all this and still fucked in the head six years on.

Design Time [I’m a Bitter Asshole Edition]

Week-ity Weekend!

Another long slog of a work week is in the books. Shew. This past month has really made me feel like I need about six months off just to be lazy.

The Regal Unlimited Membership is keeping me busy with trips to the movies. I saw Digger last night and will see Beware Boiúna tomorrow night. I also need to figure out how to squeeze in The Influencer Project over the next few days too. There’s no rest for the movie fan!

But what really needs to happen is I need to get back to cross-stitching. The project I started at the end of the spring has been sitting there stalled for months because summer was too distracting. Maybe the cooler temps that are nigh will kick me in the ass and get me going again.

Meanwhile … here is some random nipple and muscle I stole off TikTok.  Grrrr.

TikTok Candy

Week-ity Weekend!

Double Feature Weekend

PRIMETIME & HEART OF THE BEAST

This past weekend, I went to the movies twice because I don’t have anything better to do with my time. Ha!

I was pretty excited to see Primetime, the Robert Patterson as To Catch a Predator‘s Chris Hansen movie. All the actors in this movie are bringing their A-game and really putting in some good work. But I think the script and director let this one down. It’s got a cool visual style, but then it gets overstylized for no real apparent reason. The script doesn’t really seem to know what the movie should be about, so when it ends, you don’t have any clear idea of what was trying to be said about any of the people or events.

Heart of the Beast was pretty okay! I am a sucker for a survival movie, especially one set in beautiful, rugged locales. My biggest complaint is that they give the ending away at the very beginning. AND I don’t understand why, in the Year of Our Lord 2026, we still have to suffer through badly done CGI animals in films. Surely there is another trained bear, like Bart the Bear, that can be brought in for these kinds of films. Anyhoo … the movie did make me tear up at the end, and it gets points for that.

Three movies (Digger, Beware Boiúna, and The Influencer Project) are on the slate over the next week. Will any of them be good? Time will tell!

Double Feature Weekend

Maintenance

Those of you who have been around for the past 24 years know that this humble blog started off on Blogger and then moved to WordPress a little over two years into its life. Blogger had become cumbersome, and WordPress offered cool things like titles for posts and built-in comments. When I did the switch in early 2005, I lost all the comments on posts (you had to use an add-on for comments in Blogger and the import feature for that didn’t work with WordPress), and all the Blogger-created posts came over without titles. I made my peace with losing two years of comments, but the post title thing has been something that I really haven’t liked for 22+ years.

So …

Over the course of this year, I have FINALLY gone back and added titles to all the posts from the Blogger years. I *think* I finally finished this task yesterday. Part of me worried a little about doing this after 22 years. Is it revisionist? “Maybe” would be the answer. I tried my best to skim the post and make a title with the first thing that came to mind. I didn’t change anything in the posts themselves short of correcting some spelling errors and the odd missing word. I have never been the best typist.

One of the things I noticed during this task is the sheer number of broken links. Some of these were to previously existing photo galleries on this site (which I might try to fix as my next maintenance task). But the majority of them were links to other sites. I guess that is just a testament to the ever-changing internet.

Anyhoo … onward and upward!

Maintenance

And … Weekend!

Sigh.

What a long fucking week it’s been.

The day job is still being a drag. And a freelance project hit a roadblock over things I said would cause a roadblock once a printing company was involved. Why does nobody ever listen to me about these things?! I guess 30+ years of doing this shit doesn’t mean much.

It’s gotten to where I am not a fan of going to sleep. The nights are restless, and my dreams are always weird to downright disturbing at times.  In the early morning hours today, I dreamed about a surprise birthday party thrown for me. Two former friends were there. I have an intense hatred for these former friends because of how they have treated me. In the dream, I was upset that they were there and acting like nothing was wrong. I woke up as the people there were singing Happy Birthday. I don’t like dreams like this. I don’t want dreams like this anymore. But they happen every single night.

Ugh.

Meanwhile, Leenalchi came across my radar earlier in the week, and I am quite smitten with their sound.

And … Weekend!

Double Feature Weekend

Blade Runner: The Final Cut
Thanks to the magic of Regal and their themed one-off movie showings (September is “A Month of Masterpieces”), I finally got to see Blade Runner (in its “Final Cut” iteration) on the big screen. Wow. It’s been a few years since I saw this, and I had forgotten just how visually stunning this movie is. Plus, there is that amazing score by Vangelis. I totally understand why this movie has detractors. The story is a bit slow and convoluted, and the movie just kinda ends with no clear resolution. But I am still on board for all the cool visuals and music. Blade Runner is a really excellent, but flawed, movie.

Resident Evil (2026)Holy crap. The new Resident Evil movie from Zach Cregger really rocked. It features a crisp runtime, lots of blood, and some really effective jump scares. I wanna go back and see this again!

Resident Evil Beanie
Resident Evil Beanie
And … I need this beanie!

Pssssssst. No links ’cause I am lazy!

Double Feature Weekend

Movie Time [Hope Edition]

Na Hong-jin's 'HOPE'

I got to see Na Hong-jin’s Hope this past weekend, and what a ride it was! Yeah, the runtime is long, and some of the CGI is dodgy. But what the movie does have going for it is sheer balls. I haven’t seen a movie this “doesn’t give a fuck” about how crazy it is in a long time. The extended action sequences. The funny dialogue. The crazy plot reversal with only 10 minutes left to go. The movie ended, the credits started, and someone in the row in front of me stated loudly, “What the fuck was that?!”

Na Hong-jin's 'HOPE'
Na Hong-jin's 'HOPE'
Na Hong-jin's 'HOPE'

One of the things that I did learn watching Hope is that I now have a small crush on Zo In-sung, who plays Ko Sung-ki in the movie. I was real happy that he got all the plot armor.

Movie Time [Hope Edition]